Tag Archives: relationships

Balancing Work, School, Friends, Motherhood, and Marriage

  Work life balance is very difficult. This is especially true for new mothers. The days seem to bleed into each other. The nights are never long enough and you are always exhausted! Before you know it the baby needs a diaper change, your assignment is late, and there is no food in the house! […]

Forgiveness Vs. Reconiliation

The Bible encourages us to forgive. However, it doesn’t not tell us to reconcile. The Bible encourages us to forgive in numerous verses. Some of the most famous verses include: Colossians 3:13 NIV For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not […]

No you can’t just cut people off!

With the New Year passing people are already discussing the people they have dropped in the 2016. Well I’m here to burst your bubble! I used to think with the same mind setting. However, I quickly realized that it is not as easy as it seems to cut all ties with people. For example if […]

Kemi Olunloyo writes open letter to Toke Makinwa over controversial vlog

Journalist, Kemi Olunloyo has written an open letter to Toke Makinwa after one of her Vlogs has started circulating. In Toke’s vlog she encourages young women to explore their early 20’s. She encourages them to live life and “Kiss strangers.” This was Kemi’s response: After watching Toke’s popular vlog, I agree that her videos are […]

Stop Dating Men in the Same Circle

Dating different men in the same circles is something many women are guilty of doing. This is a big mistake! Don’t do it sister!  If Tony, Jide, Bobby and  Bola all know each other trust me they have had a conversation about you! You probably will not get a different result in any of the relationships. […]

Vex Money!

Vex money is the money a woman takes with her in case the date goes bad! For example you meet a guy at the club and you exchange numbers. You guys having been gisting for a week or so when he finally asks you out on a dinner date. However, you don’t know this guy […]

No Romance Without Finance

We all know money is one of the top five issues that cause divorce. I recently ran across an episode of Moments entitled No Romance Without Finance! It was a very interesting topic to say the least. I almost wish they had more time to go deeper into the topic. Be sure to click  the link […]

Should I Stay or Should I Go? #AskMrsO

Dear Mrs O. I like your point of view on most topics. Im hoping you can help me with this. Im 23 years old. My boyfriend of 3 years is 29. My boyfriend is great guy. He comes from a great family and has a very good job. He treats me well and I usually don’t […]

Stop Splitting Bills 50/50 in Relationships

If I’m blessed with daughters I’m REALLY confused about how I will teach them to deal with men. Things have changed so much from when I was dating. When I was dating it was understood that if a guy offers to take you out he is paying. Period end of of discussion no stories.When the […]

The Dangers of Being a Ride or Die Chick

We’ve all heard these stories…. a girl is with a guy for YEARS she stays with him when he has nothing. When he is jobless, sleeping on his friends couch, no car, no money, no swag, no nothing. She helps him through this period. Loans him money when he needs it. Encourages him. Helps where […]