Author Archives: MrsOfoegbu

Stop Sharing All of Your Goals With Your Friends

I recently came across an article speaking about Why You Need To Move Away From Your Hometown and it made me think. Some of the same reasons you should move from your hometown are the same reasons why you should not share your goals with your closest friends and associates. They find it hard to see your […]

Another Instance of Shopping While Black

Once again we see another instance of shopping while black. Apparently a JCPenny sales associate in Indiana put a black woman in a chokehold while shopping with her family. He proceeded to do this while stating that the woman and her family “do not belong here”.  What exactly does that mean? When will the madness stop? […]

Why I Am Never Having a Threesome

Society is once again trying its best to normalize infidelity and sexual immortality. Recently Love and Hip Hop New York entertainer Cardi B came out to say that she likes to have threesomes with her men in order to get ” Cool Points.” Check the link below: Now don’t get me wrong I really love […]

Stop Lying About Your Relationship Online

The pressure to make your relationship seem phenomenal is getting out of control. Abeg everyone isn’t head over heels in love. Everybody isn’t about that life and its time we started keeping it real! Case in point Tonto Dikeh. After months of flexing for the gram and making her husband look like the best thing […]

Keeping Distance Between Your Friends and Your Man!

What are your views on the drama between Russell Wilson, Ciara, and Ciara’s best friend? For those who have not heard about it Russell was photographed with Ciara’s best friend sitting on his lap. People immediately started speculating and saying it was inappropriate. I feel the whole issue could have all been avoided. Women should learn […]

Double Dipping

Reader Writes: I am in a terrible situation. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend on and off for the last 2 years. She really loves him but he doesn’t love her or want her anymore. They constantly fight about the dumbest things. They clearly aren’t meant for each other. He even cheated on […]

Balancing Work, School, Friends, Motherhood, and Marriage

  Work life balance is very difficult. This is especially true for new mothers. The days seem to bleed into each other. The nights are never long enough and you are always exhausted! Before you know it the baby needs a diaper change, your assignment is late, and there is no food in the house! […]

Working Mom Guilt

When I first heard I had gotten a new position and was going back to work I wasn’t fully happy. Yes I was happy about the job offer. Yes I was happy to get back into a fixed routine.  Yes I was happy that I would be getting back into the workforce but I was […]

Seven Children With a Different Man!

Dear Mrs O. You won’t believe the story I’m about to tell you. Please make sure I am kept anonymous! Things have been crazy in my house these past few weeks. The story is not really about me but my boyfriend. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now. He […]

My Mother In Law Hates Me! #AskMrsO

Dear Mrs O. Any advice at this point would REALLY be helpful. Im convinced my mother in law hates me. I don’t want to ask my friends for help because I do not want them in my matrimonial affairs. I also do not want to ask my own mother for advice because she is the type that […]