With the rise of feminism many women are putting their careers before romance. Because of this women are “settling down” later and later in life. It is very normal for a successful woman to have her first child after 30. However, in generations before ours this was frowned upon. Because more and more woman are living the single and free life they still find themselves very active in the club scene. But how old is too old for the club? Should you still be hitting the shoki and azonto every weekend because you are not in a serious relationship?
In my opinion a woman shouldn’t find herself in the club after 30 unless its for a special occasion. This includes birthdays, bachelorette parties, graduations and events such as these. You shouldn’t be still leisurely visiting night clubs every Thursday, Friday and Saturday at this age. Accept it!
I think this is especially true for single woman and women with children. Single women might not want to be frequently visiting the club because you might seem like a party girl to potential suitors. They might assume that the reason you aren’t in a relationship is because of your party hard habits. Nobody wants a party girl as a wife.
Also, women with small children shouldn’t be frequently be found in night clubs for obvious reasons. When you laid down and decided to have a child you gave up your freedom. You have accepted that you will put that child before yourself in all things. Small children belong with their mother. It is unfair and honestly irresponsible to always leave your children with babysitters or grandparents so you can go out and party!
Lastly, I think women over 30 shouldn’t frequently visit night clubs because of shame! Wouldn’t you feel a bit silly? Partying in the same place with college girls? You won’t even be familiar with the music that is playing. Your body wouldn’t even move the way it used to. Enjoy your time and party HARD while you are 16 – 25. After then start winding down. Your time would be better spent at events like brunches, spa dates, religious events, traveling, and house get togethers. Save the club nights for special occasions after you reach a particular age.
As for men I think they get a few more years. Even though it isn’t fair it is the truth. They have less social restrictions. However, there is a point when even men frequently visiting clubs is a turn off. You don’t want to become that creepy uncle thats always at the club trying to pick up small girls. You also don’t want to be that drunk uncle that everyone wonders what year he will finally marry.
What age do you think is too old to be at the club?