Don’t be an accidental side chick! Don’t forget your safeguards! A lot of ladies of today get into relationships based on face value. They look at a guy and think he seems like a catch tall, dark, handsome, beard gang, good job etc etc etc. But then they are surprised when he turns out to be a “Yoruba Demon”!
Before they know whats going on they are a side chick for a guy that they originally wanted to be a serious boyfriend or even one day a husband. This kind of situation can be avoided by doing some simple vetting before getting serious about the relationship. Don’t worry if anyone will think your a stalker! You have to look out for your own interest.
Some things you can check:
- Googling the guy
- Checking his Facebook
- Checking his Instagram
- Talking to mutual friends about him
Some things to look out in a new catch:
- He doesn’t pick up his phone after 9pm (Married or lives with his girl)
- Doesn’t take you anywhere public
- Doesn’t introduce you to friends
- Doesn’t introduce you to family after sometime
Do you agree on doing some research before getting into a serious relationship with a guy? Leave a comment